The Evolutionary Basis of the Emotions

The brain is an amazing device. It is possible to teach the brain to work in new ways, in same fashion as it is possible to train the body to move in a new way while learning to ride a bicycle, to dance etc. Proper training can help you to control the negative emotions related to cheating instead of letting the emotions control you. To read more, visit page "Healing After Cheating and Narcissism" on this website.

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The Evolutionary Basis of the Emotions

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The behavior of humans and other animals is controlled by information-processing mechanisms that originally evolved because they enhanced the odds of survival in the ancestral environments. According to this thinking, the evolutionary basis of the emotions is a collection of information-processing "programs", each with a particular function which has evolved as a result of the natural selection (Cosmides and Tooby). Particular physiological responses of an individual are related to particular external events (Marks, 1987). For example, in threatening circumstances the aim of the resulting physiological response is to enhance the survival possibilities of an individual.

There are also other, more complex emotional states that eventually aim to ensure the success and better survival of both individual and species. For example, the emotion of sexual jealousy has been proposed to be a form of emotional adaptation (Daly, Wilson & Weghorst, 1982). Emotions can therefore be seen as a "driving force" that motivates individuals to pursue certain goals that enhance the survival possibilities on the individual level as well as on the level of species, such as reproduction, caring for offspring and competition of the limited resources. To read how the brain reacts to tragedies in life such as cheating and living with a narcissist, visit page Control Your Emotions.

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Comments (2)

|2012-04-04 08:41:27 tangri la - not at all

actually it is very natural. what is not natural is the present order and it is changing slowly, slowly. People do get interested in other people. This is our nature. But these things need to be clear between partners (no matter how many), because this is the bad thing - when you lie.
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|2009-12-26 20:53:43 Johan

I came upon your websit looking things related to happiness. I am a biologist and vary much into evolutionary psychology. I am a born and raised European but the last half of my life I lived in the Caribbean. What bothers me about this site is that cheating in a marriage is almost automatically coupled to a personality disorder (narcissism in this case). I have never met a male this did not "cheat" once and a while. I did it once and I think I had a very good reason for it. I mean, is "cheating" always a bad thing? Isn't is maybe something that comes with life?
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