Cheating and Narcissism - Information and Support

How to get over the mental pain due to narcissism or cheating

Please familiarize yourself with the book Learn to Control Your Emotions. The book is introducing ways to deal with narcissism and cheating by learning to control one's emotions. The aim is to help you to speed up your recovery after emotional tragedy. The book is easy to read and emphasis is on practicality. The goal is to give factual scientific insights regarding the mental pain and to introduce ways to help the mind and the brain to heal faster after tragedies in life. You can read more about this topic and download the book from page Recovery After Cheating and Narcissism.

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Personal advice and feedback

You can send me email by clicking This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it I will respond to you within 24 hours and will give you my feedback regarding your situation. You are not alone. Together we will get you through this difficult phase in your life. You can start the healing process right now. I will support you every step of the way. To read personal stories about cheating and narcissism, see sections Stories - Narcissism and Stories - Cheating. To read more about cheating and narcissism, see sections below or use navigation bar on top of the page. You can also contact me by posting to discussion forum. Please register and activate your account as a user at www.cheating-infidelity.com. I would be happy to give you support and feedback regarding your situation. Please do not hesitate to write.

- Maria

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Please familiarize yourself with the following sections

Recovery After Cheating and Narcissism - How to recover and heal your heart after experiencing cheating or narcissism in a relationship. Healing after a relationship with a mental abuser.

Narcissism - Information about narcissism. Learn to recognize a narcissist and understand how the mind of a narcissist works. How to cope with a narcissist and how to leave a narcissist. Emotional detachment from a narcissist. Support and advice.

Cheating and Infidelity - Information about cheating. Learn to understand how the mind of a cheater works. Healing and recovering after cheating. How to forget the memory of cheating. Support and advice.

Emotions and the Brain - Understanding the biological basis of emotions. How negative experiences related to cheating and narcissism affect the brain. Learn to control negative emotions.

Discussion Forum - Surviving Cheating and Narcissism - Get support and advice for your situation. I have opened this forum recently and due to this there are not many posts so far. Please do not let this prevent you from posting. Let us build this forum together so that more people can find help from here. I am reading new posts every day and I am happy to give you feedback and support regarding your situation.

Stories: Narcissism - Personal stories of life with narcissistic spouse.

Stories: Cheating - Personal stories of life with cheating spouse.

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Comments (3)

|2010-02-08 14:46:02 Jermaine

SEXUAL ADDICTION????!!!!
It doesn't exist!!!
BULLSHIT!
It is just plain old screwing around. Those who do it are unfaithful, pathetic cheaters and evil sneaky tramps and bums. They are immature, insecure liars who have not lost control. They DO NOT WANT TO CONTROL themselves.
It's like Obama refusing to call the murderers, "terrorists." Yo!
A murderer is a murderer. A treacherous, scheming piece of dirt is a piece of rotting garbage.
Keep the "addiction" terminology for those who love to live in denial.
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|2010-03-13 17:14:30 Rinalda - How to cope with other woman plus narcissist's si

Hello,

This is one of the hardest things I've ever gone through. It's bad enough that the narcissistic man I was with cheated on me with another woman simultaneously (I got out when I had enough proof and felt humiliated). This woman is obnoxious, and the whole thing made me sick to my stomach with anxiety and stress to have to witness. His behaviour started to change as he tried to play/have both of us, and he of course denied it all and blamed me for questioning his character.

And now, after I've shown him that I won't buy his story (he still denies he's involved with her) he is suddenly giving me the silent treatment, ignoring me, and angrily spitting out hello's and barely saying goodbye. It's unreal. He has no cause to be mad at ME! He broke MY heart....

How can I cope with the heartache??
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|2010-06-08 07:07:26 Christine - I am healing...but still have issues.

I recently (6-weeks) ended a 23-year relationship with an N after repeatedly trying to recover over and over again until I finally got it. We had not been intimate for 8-weeks prior to the end which, in hindsight, only made it easier for me. It was a long process and I eventually ended up moving 1400+ miles away to end the drama. I have my peaks and valleys and seriously have no regrets. What I find a bit disturbing is what I have seen on other websites (particularly http://psychcentral.com/disorders/sx36.htm). It is actually printed that "Narcissistic personality disorder is more prevalent in males than females, and is thought to occur in less than 1 percent in the general population." I personally find this offensive because in my experience (and others as well), I think that this disorder is WAY more prevalent than that. For all my sisters in heart, please hang in there. It really does get better! It just takes time to re-wire your thinking and get over the brain-washing. Thank you, Maria! What a great resource you are!!!
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