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_____________ For short summary of contents of this website, go to page Cheating and Narcissism Resources The goal of this website is to give support and advice to people who are facing problems in their relationship related to cheating, insecurity, mental abuse, betrayal, narcissism etc. I have experienced these things in my life, I know exactly what you are going through right now. I decided not to let the tragedies I faced in my life to crush me. Instead I decided to turn them into my advantage and use my experiences of cheating and mental abuse performed by my spouse in order to learn something new about the human nature. I have a background in neuroscience and behavioral sciences. I became interested in the mechanisms of the mind that lead us to feel such pain, anger, depression and anxiety when we learn our beloved one has been cheating on us or we experience mental or physical abuse. I created this website with aim to help people who are in your situation. The best reward for me is the knowledge that I can ease the pain of those who are suffering because of the problems related to mental abuse, narcissism and cheating in a relationship. To familiarize yourself with my website, please go to Front Page. I am living in Europe and English is not my native language, I wish you will excuse me if I make some grammatical errors. I decided to write in English because I wish to be able to help as many people as I can around the world to deal with their emotions and live a happier life. If you would like to help me to improve this website by helping me to proofread articles published here, please click this link to
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Too many people are suffering on daily basis due to negative feelings caused by problems and stress related to their relationship. I survived after experiencing mental abuse and cheating and now I wish to help others to deal with their emotions by telling what I have learned on the way. _____________ Learn to control emotions related to the memory of cheating  I have written down the results of my literature search and some of my personal experiences of how to recover after cheating and relationship with a narcissist. The brain is an amazing device. It is possible to teach the brain to work in new ways in certain situations in same fashion as it is possible to train the body to move in a new way while learning to ride a bicycle, to dance etc. Proper training can help you to control negative emotions related to cheating and to a relationship with a narcissist instead of letting your emotions control you. You can read more about these topics from page Healing After Cheating and Narcissism.
If you like this website, I warmly recommend you to read the book Learn to Control Your Emotions (click the link to learn more about the book). I have been overwhelmed by the amount of emails I have received from people all around the world telling about their difficult situation and suffering due to cheating, abuse and narcissism. My wish is to be able to help all those who are writing to me by responding to them personally. My best reward is the knowledge that I am able to help people who are suffering. I am grateful to all of you who have sent me email and gave me positive feedback regarding this website and my book. Your messages serve as a fuel that keeps me going and gives me the strength and energy to continue this work. _____________ Cheating, narcissism and mental abuse I felt crushed when I realized I was living with a narcissist who also turned out to be a mental abuser and cheater, as narcissists often are. I went through hell during my relationship with a cheating narcissist, but I learned some precious things on the way. I know how it feels like when the beloved one is cheating, lying and letting you down emotionally. The emotional reactions related to crisis such as cheating or mental abuse are very natural and follow certain pattern in case of most people. It helps to know that you are not alone and to know what you should expect from the following weeks and months after you found out about cheating or you have been mentally abused. If you are living with an abusive spouse who shows signs of being narcissistic and a cheater, it helps you to realize that there is nothing wrong with you but that your spouse is suffering of abnormal physiological condition (narcissism) which often involves cheating, lying, betrayal and mental abuse. _____________ Emotions after cheating and mental abuse  I felt I was in total darkness for a long time after I found out about the lying, cheating and betrayal of my spouse. In the beginning everything went well and I was head over heels in love with my spouse, but as time went by I slowly started to realize that the man I thought I loved was narcissistic, mentally abusive, emotionally cold, dishonest and also had a history of cheating in all his previous relationships.
All sorts of emotions related to cheating and mental abuse I experienced were spinning in my head during those times. I had never met a person like my spouse in my life and I had zero idea how to cope with his behavior or with my own bad feeling caused by his lies and cheating. On the other hand I wanted to stay in my relationship but I had been deeply wounded and had mixed feelings of confusion, frustration, pain and anger towards my narcissistic spouse. I think the fact that I started to do a bit of research on cheating, narcissism and mental abuse served as some kind of a self-protection mechanism, a way to maintain the integrity of my mind. I felt that if I could understand the physiological and mental basis of my emotions related to mental abuse, narcissism and cheating I could learn to control my mind better instead of letting the situation control me. _____________ Cheating, mental abuse and the brain It took time but via practice I slowly learned that indeed human mind can be trained to overcome obstacles such as cheating, narcissism and mental abuse more effectively, in same manner as muscles in our body can be trained to perform better via exercise. This new way of thinking changed everything for me. If you wish to read more about this topic and to learn how you can teach your brain to deal with obstacles in life such as cheating and narcissism, visit page Healing After Cheating and Narcissism.
I created this website with aim to help those who are going through similar crisis in their life related to problems such as mental abuse, cheating, jealousy, insecurity, betrayal and narcissism in a relationship. I have collected to this website some of the key things I have discovered during my literature search and during my personal experiences of narcissism, mental abuse and cheating. I will constantly add new articles and information as I continue my research on these topics. Knowledge is power. If it worked for me, it can work for you. You do not have to go through the pain and suffering you are now experiencing due to cheating, narcissism, lying or mental or physical abuse. You alone can decide how your life will evolve from this point on. Take the control of your life and your mind, stop being a victim and start enjoying every day of your life the way you enjoyed when you were a child. Keep on reading the articles you find from this website and I will tell you how to get started in the process of becoming new stronger You. - Maria You can contact me by clicking
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___________ For more resources related to narcissism and cheating, please go to section Cheating And Narcissism Resources. To read about biological basis of emotions and how negative events such as cheating and narcissism affect the brain, please go to section Brain And Emotions. To read more about cheating and how the mind of a cheater works, go to section Cheating And Infidelity. To read personal stories of life with cheating spouse, go to section Personal Stories: Cheating And Infidelity. To read personal stories of life with narcissistic spouse, go to section Personal Stories: Narcissistic Spouse. To read about narcissism and how the mind of narcissist works, go to section Narcissism.
From this website you find following sections Methods and tips which will help you to recover faster after emotional tragedies such as cheating and living with a narcissist. It is possible to teach the brain to react differently in certain situations in same fashion as it is possible to teach the body and muscles to react in certain way when we learn to ride a bicycle, to dance etc. You can learn to control your emotions instead of letting your emotions control you. Read more about these topics from section Recovery After Cheating and Narcissism. Learn to understand and cope with the emotions related to cheating of a spouse. Do not let feelings of depression, anxiety, mistrust and insecurity turn your life into misery. I know what you have been through. Why do we feel the way we do after learning our spouse has been cheating us and lying to us? Emotions related to cheating are results of certain biochemical reactions in our brain. We can train our brain to react differently in certain situations in same manner as we train our body to move in certain way while learning for example some new sport, to dance etc. It is possible to alter fixed thought processes and arm ourselves against the tragedies in life such as cheating and mental abuse, so that they would not crush us. Learn to understand how emotions related to cheating, mental abuse, lying and betrayal are created in the brain. You can get over the cheating of your spouse and get your happiness back. Get new insights, help and support from this section. Information of narcissism, infidelity, mental abuse and how it is like to live with a narcissistic partner. Support and advice for coping with narcissist and mental abuse. Learn to recognize the signs of mental abuse and narcissism and to understand how the mind of a narcissist works. Learn the ways to influence and manipulate a narcissist. Most importantly, learn to heal your mind after mental abuse, infidelity, lying and betrayal of a narcissist. Stop being a victim, learn how to take control of your life. Personal stories of people who are facing problems in their relationship related to cheating, infidelity, depression, anxiety, insecurity, mistrust, mental abuse, lying and betrayal. If you wish, you can send me your story to get some comments and new insights regarding your situation. You are not alone. I wish to help you get through the misery you are now facing due to cheating or mental abuse. I have been in same situation as you, I know exactly how you are feeling. I was able to get over the pain which followed cheating, lying and mental abuse, you can do it too. I created this website with aim to help people who are in your situation. The best reward for me is if I can ease the suffering of those who are experiencing pain due to problems related to cheating, mental abuse, lying and mistrust in their relationship. For information of how to send your own story, see page Personal Stories: Cheating And Infidelity INFORMATION. Personal stories of people who are living with narcissistic and mentally abusive spouse. Life with narcissist is very consuming emotionally. One experiences all sorts of emotional turmoils such as depression, anxiety, hopelessness, sadness and mistrust. It takes long time for the mind and the brain to heal after mentally abusive relationship. If you suspect you are in a mentally abusive relationship or in a relationship with a narcissist, learn to recognize signs by comparing your experiences to experiences of others who have been living with narcissistic mental abuser. For information of how to send your own story, see page Personal Stories: Narcissistic Spouse INFORMATION. Blog dealing with topics related to narcissism, cheating, the brain and the mind. Updated on daily basis. Discuss your problems and read stories of others who have experienced cheating and mental abuse in their relationship. You are not alone. Get support and advice from others who are facing similar problems related to mistrust, insecurity, cheating, lying, infidelity and betrayal in a relationship. Here you find links to other interesting websites dealing with cheating, mental abuse, lying, betrayal, mistrust and infidelity in a relationship. Front page of this site. Featuring interesting articles and entries.
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About Maria
Sorry for your past relationship with such gay.
Wish you are very happy now
I am also dealing with this trap now...