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___________ The goal of this website is to give support to people who are facing problems in their relationship related to cheating, abuse and narcissism. I am living in Europe and English is not my native language, I wish you will excuse me if I make some grammatical errors. I have a background in neuroscience and behavioral sciences and I am currently doing brain research related to these topics in university in my home country. I decided to write in English because I wish to reach as many people as I can around the world. ___________ One of the readers of this website asked me is it possible to make a narcissist feel unhappy, sad, abandoned, angry and depressed. The answer is yes, a narcissist is a human being like everyone else and is very capable of experiencing these feelings. The only thing that is different between a narcissist and the rest of us is the situation which triggers these feelings in a narcissist.
A narcissist is feeling happy when a narcissist feels he or she is getting something. This something can be anything, it can be an abstract matter or a concrete thing. A narcissist is also experiencing feelings similar to happiness when someone else is losing something, even if a narcissist does not benefit from the loss directly. This is due to the fact that narcissists are very envious people and therefore narcissists are happy if things are not going well in the lives of other people. For the same reason narcissists are not capable of feeling compassion and pity towards others. I have written an article about this topic, if you are interested in reading more about what kinds of the feelings a narcissist can experience and what is making a narcissist feel unhappy, visit page How to Make a Narcissistic Spouse Feel Bad. Personally I believe there is no point in wasting time in an attempt to make a narcissist feel bad (to get the revenge etc). The best thing one can do is to get out from an unhealthy relationship and to live a happy life. A narcissist is feeling miserable and unhappy when he or she sees that you are doing great without a narcissist. That makes a narcissist feel he or she is insignificant, unimportant creature. Previous strategy only works if you are truly living a happy life. Narcissists have very sharp instincts in certain matters and they are sensing it if you are merely putting up an act. Narcissists are good at spotting these things because deep in their heart they are hoping you are not genuinely happy but that you are missing the narcissist and are hoping to be back together with him or her. The moment you show the slightest sign that this is true, a narcissist experiences joy and feelings of power and control over you, which serves as a narcissistic supply. If you have ended a relationship with a narcissist, do not let yourself to be tempted to call the narcissist or to show in any way that you miss the narcissist, even if your heart is torn apart. If you do that you only end up damaging yourself. If you are struggling to end relationship with a narcissist, I recommend you to read article How to Leave A Narcissist. - Maria You can contact me by clicking
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