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The goal of this website is to give support to people who are facing problems in their relationship related to cheating, abuse and narcissism. I am living in Europe and English is not my native language, I wish you will excuse me if I make some grammatical errors. I have a background in neuroscience and behavioral sciences and I am currently doing brain research related to these topics in university in my home country. I decided to write in English because I wish to reach as many people as I can around the world. If you wish to read more about me, please visit page Site Overview.

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I have received so many emails from people who are suffering due to cheating and narcissism in their relationship, that I decided to start to write to this blog on daily basis, aiming to give encouragement and positive energy to all of you who are struggling in a negative relationship. Please feel free to visit the Blog Page on daily basis to check for the updates. You are not alone, there are countless of people who are going through what you are going through right now. There is strength in numbers. Together we are taking small steps towards a happier life. 

The power of the internet is amazing. During last ten years or so the Word Wide Web has truly exploded. Nowadays people all around the world can go to google and simply type keywords "cheating" or "narcissism" and immediately they are being directed to numerous pages dealing with these topics. There is no need to go to library nowadays, we all have access to limitless amount of information without ever leaving our house. Amazing.

I have been overwhelmed by the amount of people who have visited my website from all over the world. People are using all sorts of keywords to look for information about cheating, mental abuse, affairs, emotional pain after infidelity, narcissism etc. Once they find my website, they spend hours here, reading about the topic of their interest. This tells me there is a strong demand for this sort of information and support. Statistics speak. I am so glad I started this website and that I have been able to give support to so many people who have navigated to these pages. You are one of those people. I wish you have found my site helpful.

I warmly welcome you to bookmark the Blog Page and return for daily updates.My aim is to add an encouraging story or message every day. You can use this blog as your aid when you are struggling to get rid of the mental pain due to cheating and narcissism. I have been through what you are now going through. Reading my thoughts will help you to get to the point where I am now. I wish to help you to heal your heart and to regain your happiness and mental balance. Having said that, let us start the journey! 

The positive message for today

Think about the beautiful and handsome Hollywood starts. One would think that those people are happy, right? Well, in reality many of them are quite sad and depresses. Think for example about Heath Ledger. A handsome, praised actor who had a great future ahead of him. Women all around the world loved him,he had a beautiful young daughter, he had done great movies... The list goes on. And what happened to him? He died of an overdose of painkillers and antidepressants. Antidepressant and Heath Ledger, the Man Who Had It All? As I said, there are countless of people on this planet who are struggling with exactly the same kind of problems in their private lives and in their relationship as you are. Even the admired celebrities are mere humans when it comes to this.

You might think that you would not have the problems you are now having in your relationship if you were more beautiful or handsome, more talented, smarter etc. But that is a mere illusion. Even if you would have all those things, you would still have the same problems. What does this mean, then? What is the conclusion? Conclusion is that we must learn to control our emotions in order to avoid the depression (and the fate of Heath Ledger). We need to reach the state where we are the masters of our emotions, instead of being at the mercy of some outside force (for example a cheating or narcissistic spouse). Only if we reach this stage, we can truly start to enjoy our lives. We no not need other people to prove we are worthy. We do not need the twisted love of a narcissist or insecurity that follows after being repeatedly cheated on by our spouse. We are independent individuals, our happiness is in our own hands, nobody else's! 

I will get back to you tomorrow, I wish to continue about this topic but unfortunately I must run now.

Take care, dear friends! Hag in there until tomorrow. Tomorrow is a new day that brings with it a new hope, perhaps even a new life...!

Warm hug,

- Maria

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