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__________ The goal of this website is to give support to people who are facing problems in their relationship related to cheating, abuse and narcissism. I am living in Europe and English is not my native language, I wish you will excuse me if I make some grammatical errors. I have a background in neuroscience and behavioral sciences and I am currently doing brain research related to these topics in university in my home country. I decided to write in English because I wish to reach as many people as I can around the world. If you wish to read more about me, please visit page Site Overview. ___________ Help yourself by helping others
This article will give you ideas as to how to turn your tragic situation to you advantage. You can help others and create an income as you do so. Read the chapters below to learn how to accomplish this. We all wish to have a purpose to our lives. You may have just found your niche! If you wish to read more about how to start a home based internet business, I also recommend you to read this article: How to start a home based internet business. You have navigated to my website because you are going through a hard time due to cheating, narcissism or mental abuse. I receive letters from people all around the world telling about their mental turmoil due to these sad issues. Many of them feel their life is empty and meaningless due to problems in their relationship or due to the fact that their partner has left them. I am doing my best to respond to everyone in person. I have realized that one of the most important things in the recovery process after separation is to be able to fill the empty space left by one's partner with something meaningful. Many women have written to me telling that they feel trapped in their bad relationship because they are financially dependent on their husband. They would do anything to leave, but they simply cant. These reasons are why I came up with the idea that I believe can help many. Let me tell you about it in more detail.
 You are feeling down due to the fact that your spouse has been cheating on you or has been mentally abusing you. One reason why you feel down is because you have to rearrange your view of your future. You thought you are going to share your future with your spouse, but now you are no longer sure what is going to happen. Uncertainty of the future and the view of an empty, meaningless life are big reasons for the development of depression. I felt that emptiness and loneliness when I was struggling in my relationship with a narcissist.
How did I beat the depression and regained my happiness and energy? Well, you are looking at the answer at this very moment. I created this website aiming to help others who are in my situation. I realized that the experience I had gained during my difficult years with my narcissistic partner was too valuable to be wasted. I wanted to help people around the world to break free from an abusive relationship and to regain their happiness. Life is too precious to be wasted in suffering! You are in exactly the same situation as I was. You have experienced something devastating. You can use your experiences to help others who are suffering as you are. - If you wish to download the guidebook "Building your own website" and to build a similar website than this one, you find the download instructions at the end of this page. - If you wish to read more about how to start a home based internet business, I recommend you to read this article: How to start a home based internet business. The beginning
When I decided to start my website, I had no experience of making web pages. I went to google and did lots of searching, lots of studying and tried various different systems. In the beginning my book Learn to Control Your Emotions was as a free download on this website, but as the website started to receive more and more visitors I ended up putting a download fee for the book so that the extensive amount of time I have invested into writing my articles and both public and private responses to people would generate a small income. It is important for me to help others, and I wish I could dedicate as much time as possible to this website. The income I get from my book is making it possible. Now you may wonder "ok, but what does all this have to do with me"? I am telling you all these things to show you that YOU can do the same. You can start your own website, just like this one, and participate in helping people all around the world who are suffering due to narcissism, cheating and mental abuse. This article tells you how to accomplish this. You do not need to have any prior knowledge of building websites. You do not need to know any html coding. I have built this website without using any html or any other coding. You may not believe it at first, but the truth is that starting a website such as this one is as easy as it is to start a gmail account. This website looks skillfully made and complicated, but I have only used non-commercial (meaning 100% free, just like facebook, gmail etc free services) ready-made packages where you can choose the appearance of the website by clicking different buttons. No coding is needed at any point. People often do not realize how easy and how cheap it is to start a website nowadays. If they did, I believe there would be many more sites out there. Keep reading and I will tell you how you can start your own website. Below you find Google Analytics statistics and an example map of US demonstrating the amount of visitors my website has received within a given time period (article continues below) Visitors from all over the world 
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Below I am listing some of the benefits starting an own website would bring you. Financial independence With time, it is possible for you to make enough income from your website so that you can be financially independent. If you want you can even quit your day job (however, many of us choose to continue our day job even if it was possible to quit it, simply because it would be too boring to sit home all day long... But whatever you decide to do, is up to you). There are several techniques that can help you create more income online. I have written a guidebook in which I have listed the techniques I have used (continue reading to find out more) and I am also introducing other methods of which I have heard. New direction to your lifeIt is well known that human being is happiest when he or she is feeling he or she is helping someone. You know the pain you are feeling right now. You have probably read the stories on this website of others who are hurting as you are. You can help those people to regain their happiness. World Wide Web is combining all of us. See the map at the end of this page as a demonstration of the locations from where my website is receiving visitors. All those people are only couple clicks away from you. You can reach them and you can connect with them, and most importantly, YOU CAN HELP THEM. You can expand your website to include also other areas of your interest. If you wish you can sell all sorts of items on your website, either your own products (for example ebooks) or you can promote the products of others. You can create a home based business and expand it as much as you want. The sky is the limit! Instructions - How to get started
I have written a guidebook that teaches you with clear steps and pictures how you can set up your own website and open your own Google Analytics account to monitor the origins of your visitors, how long they stay on your site, how may pages they browse, how long they stay on a given page etc. The guidebook instructs you point by point how you can build same kind of website as this one you are now visiting. It is as easy to start Google Analytics account as it is to open a gmail or hotmail account. It is just as easy to start the website. The problem is that the information required to get the whole package going is spread around the internet and is not very easy to find all the information from one location (how to start the website, how to open Google Analytics account, how to arrange instant download system if you wish to sell items on your website such as ebooks etc). All these procedures are very simple and straightforward but if you must go to google and look for the information starting from the scratch, it takes lots of time and many trials and errors.  In my guidebook I am describing clearly every step of the way, with appropriate screenshots to help you to understand everything. If you follow the instructions in the guidebook, you will have your own website up and running within 24 hours. If you like the design of my website, you can create exactly similar site or then you can change the design to match your liking.
Getting your own website up and running requires only a few simple steps. These steps are described in the book. As I stated above, no html coding is needed. All you need to know is how to click your mouse button. After building your site all you need to do is to start to produce content (write articles etc), spread the word of your website to discussion forums and start promoting your site by using the tips and methods described in the guidebook. Those methods have brought me to this point where my website is receiving thousands of visitors from all around the world. You can get to this same point and continue further, as I am going to do. If you wish to read more about different ways to create a home based internet business, visit this page: How to start a home based internet business. If you wish to download the guidebook, you find the download instructions at the end of this page.
How much income one can make
If you are selling a self-help ebook on your website for the price of for example 20 USD and let us say only 10% of your visitors would buy the book, if you receive 10 000 visitors / month your income will be 2000 USD / month. If you receive only 5000 visitors, your income will be 1000 / month. If you promote your website well, you can receive much more visitors. You can sell several different items in your website instead of selling only one book. You can also become an affiliate and advertise the products of others in your website and get a certain percentage of the sales price every time you refer one of your visitors to the website selling a given product and the visitor makes a purchase. If you do not want to write books, you can make a good income by promoting the products of others (from my guidebook you find the instructions as to how to do this). On top of this you can place google ads to your website (see the ads I have on my website?) and every time your visitors are clicking those ads, you will get payed. From the guidebook you will find clear instructions as to how to do all these things along with the addresses to relevant websites where you can easily download all the necessary components for your website (I have only used free components to create this website. It is possible to use commercial components, but as you will soon find out, the freeware that is available today is just as good quality. Think for example facebook, skype, msn and gmail systems, to mention but a few. They are all free, but are all working very nicely). What to expect in the beginning
You may wonder how long does it take to get as much visibility and as many visitors as my website has? I have started my website in the spring 2009, so my site is fairly young and yet it has been doing very well in terms of an incoming traffic. If you follow the instructions in the guidebook you can have thousands of visitors per month coming to your website after six months or so. You can achieve this stage even sooner, if you are willing to invest your time into it. I have not been promoting my website very actively because I have also been concentrating on my research, and yet I have gotten to this point in less than one year. If you are able to invest your time to the website more than me, you will reach sooner the point of having thousands of visitors every month. Once you have set up everything (you have your website, automatic payment methods and instant download system installed etc, the guidebook tells you how to do all these things using only 100% free components, such as the ones provided by google and related services), you do not have to do anything regarding your website if you do not want to. Your website will generate income passively, without any effort from you. I personally have not wanted to leave my website without attention, I enjoy working on it, I feel happy when I am able to respond to people and help people to deal with their emotions and break free from a devastating relationship. You can do the same. This kind of a work will bring a whole new meaning to life. The colors and happiness have returned to my life. If you put up your website and start to do this work with me, we become colleagues :) We can link to each others websites and together we are able to help more people around the world. We can create a network that is providing help and support to people who are suffering due to problems related to cheating, narcissism or abuse in a relationship. Doing this work has totally changed my life. I am so glad I started my website. You can do the same! Before you download the guidebook and get started on building your website, you need to obtain your domain name (www.yourdomain.com, replace "yourdomain" with the name of your choice. This is the address of your website) and find a web hosting service. To find out how to do this, visit page How to start a home based internet business. - Maria ___________ Download instructions
You can download the guidebook by clicking the download link below to go to secure Paypal payment service page where you can make the download payment. The download fee for the book is 6 USD. The payment can be made with your existing Paypal account or with all major credit cards or via bank transfer (if this service is available in your country). After your payment has been received you will receive an email with a link to a private member page on this website where you can download your copy of the book (the book is in pdf format). You should receive this email within 24 hours after completing the payment. Should you encounter any problems at any stage of the download process, please contact me at
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I am writing to tell Maria what a wonderful thing you are doing. I was so thrilled to find your site on how to create my own site. I have been doing research on narcissism for months and have been struggling to apply it to my life at times. I do not have the 6 dollars today to down load but am working on it. I lost my job thanks to my N blackmailing my boss of 14 yrs. I am so eager to help others through my new website and pray that it will help me financially because I need to move on. I am in counsel at the womans abuse center now for almost 2 years, and it helps allot. I left back in 08 and he got me back somehow.Soon after I learned about the narcissism . He also gets to my close family and has them brain washed so they wont help me much even for support they are there for me but are real negative.I need financial help and freedom so bad so I can move out for good and re file my divorce.He talked me into calling off the court date to sign and I can not believe that I fell for this again!!! I am open to any advice you may have on how to hurry this painful move on track sooner tham later is better for me .I am on the edge of life right now because I am scared and confused at times.Please help if you can .My life with my N is age 14-45 thank you so much from florida thanks for being there for all of us debbieann