The goal of this website is to give support to people who are facing problems in their relationship related to cheating, abuse and narcissism. I am living in Europe and English is not my native language, I wish you will excuse me if I make some grammatical errors. I decided to write in English because I wish to reach as many people as I can around the world.
I created this website to ease my pain due to an abusive relationship. I became seriously depressed due to a constant, long-term mental abuse: I was so deep in it that I did not even realize the seriousness of my condition. I was so blinded by my "love" that I accepted everything my partner did to me, thinking there was something wrong with me because he was behaving that way towards me. He made me believe that I was to blame, that it was me who made him behave the way he did.
Section Personal Stories: Narcissistic Spouse is meant for the stories related to the relationship with a person who has narcissistic tendencies. By reading the stories of others and by comparing their experiences to those of your own you can figure out whether your spouse also has such tendencies. It helps when you know what is causing the problems in your relationship. If your husband or wife is truly a narcissist, you know that there was never anything you could have done to improve the situation. It was not your fault that things did not work out in your relationship.
It helps to know you are not alone. We may come from different backgrounds and countries, but there is something that unites us: we are all going through something very bad in our lives and we are looking for help and advice to find out what to do and how to recover.
Alone we are weak, but together we can be strong. By joining this community you are not only helping yourself, you are also helping people who are going through exactly the same than what you are going through right now. By helping others you can help yourself: it will improve your feeling when you know that your comforting words are helping anonymous friends who can be located right next door or to the other side of the planet. Internet has created us a unique opportunity to reach out and get in touch with people all around the world. Let us use that opportunity instead of suffering alone and isolated in our homes.
It helped me when I was able to write down my thoughts and do some self-analyzing. I believe it will help you too. You can post your story to section Personal Stories: Narcissistic Spouse or to section Personal Stories: Cheating and Infidelity. You may wish to ask for feedback for your situation or you can simply send your thoughts to the world. You can write to me completely anonymously.
It helps when you know you are not alone. I am here for you, I went through what you are now going through and I want to help you. You can read more about the contents of this website and about my background from page Site Overview or go to other sections by clicking Main Menu links.
You can send your story or contact me by sending me email to