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Dear Maria, I wrote to you a couple of months back and you posted my e-mail and your response on your site (see link):
I wanted to write again and thank you. I was touched and grateful to receive your personalized response. You started me on a course of discovery. I took your advice and followed everything you recommended in your e-mail to me. I ceased contact with him 2 months ago. I have gone 3 months before now without contact, however, I feel it is different this time. Now I understand what I am dealing with, I feel stronger. I still have days where I miss what (I thought) we had, but then I realize and recognize what I am really dealing with and now I DO NOT WANT TO GO BACK TO HIM!
I now have 1 month left of my six months abroad before I go home, but for the first time, I feel strong and confident again. I know there will still be temptations and there will be times when I feel weak for him, but I hold on to the fact that I now know how it feels to be 'me' again. Since your e-mail, I have researched and researched, I have been so hungry for knowledge about this disorder and now realize and recognize my situation and feel that I am now truly getting better and recovering and this is only down to understanding what I have actually been through. I have attached my story which you are welcome to post on your site (anonymously please, I want to protect the other innocent people involved). I really hope that my story helps someone else out there. Thank you again.
__________ The goal of this website is to give support to people who are facing problems in their relationship related to cheating, abuse and narcissism. I am living in Europe and English is not my native language, I wish you will excuse me if I make some grammatical errors. I have a background in neuroscience and behavioral sciences and I am currently doing brain research related to these topics in university in my home country. I decided to write in English because I wish to reach as many people as I can around the world. If you wish to read more about me, please visit page Site Overview.
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Dear Friend, Thank you for your email, I am happy to hear from you! Thank you so much for sending your story. I read it and I found so many similarities when compared to my narcissistic ex spouse. It is good to hear that you are now well on the way towards the full recovery! I am happy that you found my earlier response to be helpful for you. It is the best reward I can get from doing this work. Every time when someone writes to me and tells me he or she has found help from my website, I feel so happy that I created the site.
 Your story is well written and very informative. It is a touching and beautifully articulated description of how the relationship with a narcissistic husband can be like. Your story is full of red flags and warning signs of malignant narcissism, it will help others to recognize what they are dealing with and to break free from toxic relationship before it is too late. You have done a huge favor to so many people who are suffering due to narcissism and mental abuse by writing your story. I wish to thank you on behalf of all those people who read your story and who will finally understand what they are dealing with. Your story will help them to realize that they are not to blame of their situation and problems in their relationship.
Thank you again! Please feel free to write to me also in future and tell how things are going with you. I wish you can stay as strong as you are now also when you return back to your home country. If you ever have a "weak moment", please write to me, I am happy to help you and to support you any way I can.
I have published your story on my website, here is the link:
http://www.cheating-infidelity.com/Home/personal-stories-narcissistic-spouse/warning-signs-of-a-cheating-narcissistic-husband.html
My warmest thoughts, - Maria If you wish to submit your own story and get feedback and support for your situation or if you wish to contact me for any other reason, click
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